Observer self, also known as self as context in the ACT literature, is a very difficult concept for our minds to grasp. We spend most of our time caught up in what we might call our thinking self. In this short video, Ken Wilber gives us a good description of the always present observer self, which he calls the Big Mind.
How to carry your thoughts and feelings with you as you move towards your valued living.
This is written from an excellent mindfulness exercise by Tara Brach on how to ’embrace’ your unpleasant feelings and say ‘yes’ to them in order to create space to move in the directions that really matter.
To make choices in the present moment, with full awareness of what we want to stand for. Here is a brief handout that will introduce you to helpful concepts in making choices, now. Counselling and Psychological Services, University of New South Wales. Written by Louise Shepherd. Shared with the consent of the Director of the service.
A guided mindfulness exercise which lasts 14 minutes. Courtesy of Ann Bailey. This exercise is guided exposure, and it can lead to the experience of difficult thoughts and feelings, as you move in the direction of the life you want to live by.
A metaphor to illustrate what happens to our valued directions when we struggle with our experiences.
This brief handout, gives you an introduction to defusion and how to relate to your thoughts in a more helpful and flexible way. Counselling and Psychological Services University of New South Wales. Written by Louise Shepherd with acknowledgments to Dr. Russ Harris.
Sesame Street you tube clip which helps illustrate the power of ‘defusing’ from our repetitive and unhelpful thinking.
Kindly created by Counselling and Psychological Services University of New South Wales. Written by Louise Shepherd with acknowledgments to Steve Hayes.
Again created by Counselling and Psychological Services University of New South Wales. Written by Louise Shepherd with acknowledgments to Rob Zettle and Steve Hayes.
Counselling and Psychological Services University of New South Wales. Written by Louise Shepherd with acknowledgments to Dr. Russ Harris.
Steve Hayes founder of Acceptance Commitment Therapy describes how he came to developing this model.